The warning signs of suicide

Suicide is rarely a spur of the moment decision. In the days and hours before people kill themselves, there are usually clues and warning signs.  The strongest and most disturbing signs are verbal  such as "I can't go on" "Nothing matters any more" or even "I'm thinking of ending it all." Such remarks should always be taken seriously.

Other common warning signs include:

  • Becoming depressed or withdrawn
  • Behaving recklessly
  • Getting affairs in order and giving away valued possessions
  • Showing a marked change in behaviour, attitudes or appearance
  • Abusing drugs or alcohol
  • Suffering a major loss or life change

The following list gives more examples, all of which can be signs that somebody is contemplating suicide. Of course, in most cases these situations do not lead to suicide. But, generally, the more signs a person displays, the higher the risk of suicide.

Situations

  • Family history of suicide or violence
  • Sexual or physical abuse
  • Death of a close friend or family member
  • Divorce or separation, ending a relationship
  • Failing academic performance, impending exams, exam results
  • Job loss, problems at work
  • Impending legal action
  • Recent imprisonment or upcoming release

Behaviours

  • Crying
  • Fighting
  • Breaking the law
  • Impulsiveness
  • Self-mutilation
  • Writing about death and suicide
  • Previous suicidal behaviour
  • Extremes of behaviour
  • Changes in behaviour

Physical Changes

  • Lack of energy
  • Disturbed sleep patterns - sleeping too much or too little
  • Loss of appetite
  • Sudden weight gain or loss
  • Increase in minor illnesses
  • Change of sexual interest
  • Sudden change in appearance
  • Lack of interest in appearance

Thoughts and Emotions

  • Thoughts of suicide
  • Loneliness - lack of support from family and friends
  • Rejection, feeling marginalized
  • Deep sadness or guilt
  • Unable to see beyond a narrow focus
  • Daydreaming
  • Anxiety and stress
  • Helplessness
  • Loss of self-worth

    HELPLINES

France
Suicide Ecoute
PARIS
Tel: 0033 1 45 39 4000
Services by: Telephone
Website: http://suicide.ecoute.free.fr

SOS Help - Confidential listening line in English
Boite Postale 43,
Boulogne, Cedex 92101
Tel: 0033 1 46 21 46 46
Services by: Telephone (3-11pm)
Website: www.soshelpline.org 

Fil Sante Jeunes
PARIS
Tel: 0033 800 235 236
Services by: Telephone
Website for young people: www.filsantejeunes.com 


 

This text was taken from the Befrienders International website
With grateful acknowledgement to BEFRIENDERS