DEPENDENCY ON MY PARTNER MAKES ME FEEL INSECURE"
I have been
with my partner for one year now. We both live in
France. One month ago I discovered that I'm pregnant. He
has been great about it, very supportive. My problem is,
and was even before the pregnancy, that I'm totally
insecure. Only in the very beginning of the relationship
I felt relaxed and happy, because at that stage I was
not in love with him and I was not as attached to him as
I am now.
dependency makes me really scared - I doubt him, even if
I know that there is not reason for that, I accuse him
about his past and keep thinking about his past
relationships. It seems to me as if I do now want to let
myself be happy. I am always afraid that something bad
will happen and have difficulty accepting that someone
loves me and will not hurt me. I do not have any bad
experience from the past in this sense. I just do not
love and respect myself enough to believe that others
can love me. I do not know how to change this.
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